There (they're, their?) are so many ways people make mistakes when it comes to spelling. And there are also plenty of people who are right there to tell them how wrong they are. I'm sure there are plants of people who would to tell me how wrong it was for me to start that last sentence with "and".
Judging people based on their online grammar usage and spelling is rude and incredibly ableist. Many people have dyslexia, or other disabilities. For myself, I have brain damage from surgery and cancer. No matter how hard I try, I miss words and make mistakes.
Also, spelling can be vey difficult for some people. Spelling bees are held for exactly that reason. There's a reason English is one of the most difficult languages to learn. So many of our words sound the same but are spelled differently. "Break" and Brake", for instance. The classic "they're", "there", and "their". "Threw" and "through". And let's not forget just how unhelpful spellcheck can be.
Slamming people, or shaming them, for making mistakes, is both arrogant and cruel. While putting people down for not knowing the correct grammar or spelling, a person almost certainly has their own shortcomings that could be exposed by someone else who notices those things.
Kindness is important. Respect is important. Learning to be understanding of why someone might be making the mistakes they do is part of both. I think you'll find that despite the mistakes people make, you will still understand what they meant, and you'll feel better about how you thought about them.
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